Coded

Need to offer feedback and don’t know how to word it? Need to approach something gently? Need to illustrate a point? Use these.

A Hill to Die On

refers to a concept or opinion you feel very strongly about. You either greatly dislike or like. Alternatively, you can say, this isn't my "hill" and I like all options, for example.

Take it Outside

quick and simple way to remind others about more appropriate settings. could be used to break up tension and suggest a private venue, or refer members to more appropriate channels

Poke The Bear

nervous about approaching a sensitive subject? worried how someone might respond? As if you can poke the bear

Who Owns This?

Not sure what responsibilities belong to which member? Ask for easy clarification.

Rubber Ducking

when you just want to talk something out

Bandwidth Check

should start with every check-in, meeting, or to gauge whether to approach a serious topic

Shiny Object Syndrome

distraction by new ideas